I know it has been a while since I updated. I had my 14w1d appointment the other day and it was a little tougher than planned. Things looked good on the ultrasound, my cervix is longer than 3cm which is apparently a good thing. Our results for the Down's scan were 1/1700, which also seems like a good number.
For some reason the doctor still wants me to do an amnio. I really don't want to do it. I do not want some news that might cause either the doctor or H to recommend a termination. I have already had 2 terminations and I really don't think I can handle another one. H seems to think that if there is any kind of problem, we would have more time to 'plan'. I think that is justification for making me do a test that I don't really see a point for. We spent the rest of the day 'discussing' this and didn't get anywhere. The dr wants me to do it in the next week or so in case there needs to be a termination scheduled, which basically just proves my point.
I haven't made any final decisions yet, please help.